I have been seated next to
Nervous flyers before. One woman in particular, seated next to the window, who offered interesting conversation for practically the entire flight. It wasn't until we were about to land that she clammed up completely. She had told me that she was nervous about flying, but seemed perfectly fine, and I didn't want to throw some statistical numbers at her, or tell her something that she was tired of hearing, like the old quote that flying is, by far, the safest way to travel.
Instead,
I decided to try to understand where this fear, for so many of us, comes from.
It would seem that one reason, which is backed by research, is that we are not in complete control of our safety. If something goes wrong, we have to trust in the flight crew to do what is right. Our safety is in the hands of these people that we do not even know.
Another reason, just according to my dead reckoning, has to do with the fact that we are flying through the air. Air is not something that seems very solid. You can't grab onto it, or sit on it. But somehow, we are able to float through it, all the way to our destination.
The last reason that I wanted to mention is risk perception. Fatal aircraft events make the news, and they stick in our heads. They can leave a lasting impression, no matter how rarely they occur.
British Airways
Offers "Flying with Confidence" classes, that are designed to reduce passenger anxiety, by teaching them how planes stay up in the air. They claim to have a 98 percent success rate, and to have helped "over 50,000 people" to conquer their fear of flying. While these numbers may sound a bit optimistic, I think that a good knowledge of the technology and safety in the aircraft can help to make the passengers more comfortable with their flying experience.
Even though
I consider myself to be reasonably comfortable while traveling by air, it's a lot more comfortable for me to just drive my own car. This is why it doesn't make perfect sense that statistically, I am 8,615 percent more likely to be killed while driving my car, than while flying on a jet plane.